Pseudo-friendships aka FriendSHITS – speak your mind

Have you ever had one of those? A friendship that really only existed during times of need, as in they needed you? Or they only talked to you when you were around other people so everyone could see yall were “friends”? Basically, a friendship that only existed when it was beneficial to the other person?

Those can all suck my left nut, and I don’t even have one.

Go ahead, comment and let it lose. Tell me what you’ve wanted to tell them or just express yourself however you want. Don’t be shy, I won’t tell 😉

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24 thoughts on “Pseudo-friendships aka FriendSHITS – speak your mind

  1. I’ve noticed some relationships/friendships where upon entrance the man is happy and the woman is a “damsel in distress” then when her situation improves partially because of him then at the end the roles have changed and he’s unhappy and she’s the one “living.” I saw a picture displaying this perfectly.

    1. That’s very true, that happens indeed. I would sometimes think maybe the man should have known better when he first got himself in that situation, but sometimes there’s other circumstances that makes it impossible to tell her now. We never know as onlookers. But yes, it’s super sad when it happens. Sad for both people!

  2. All the frigging time! Always take, never give. I’ve got so bored of this I just dump them now nd don’t make effort myself. I don’t see the point in trying.

    1. That’s just what I did! And I ended up strengthening some weaker friendships and minimizing the most fake ones. Natural selection, the good friendships blossomed and the pseudos faded graciously.

  3. I’ve definitely had quite a few one-sided relationshits and they are quite draining. They fade away when you stop putting your energy into them.

    1. yea and it’s hella relieving when they do! Then you’ll realize the ones that care make the effort to talk to you after they realize you hadn’t put in the effort like you usually do to talk to them. I give them a chance when they at least show some effort then.

    1. Of course, and thanks as well!
      And I’m freakin ECSTATIC about graduation. I’m sad to leave the bubble of UMiami as well, though …met some great people here and had a kickass time in college.

      1. Well put them in your contacts. Because you’re leaving doesn’t mean you can’t be friends anymore. Are you staying in Miami?

      2. Very true, I’ve got them connected to every social network, emails and cell #s down.

        Nope, leaving Miami. I would only stay here if I was offered a job with a nice salary to afford it. I’m ready to go back to Texas and continue with my music business career there. I’ve done a bit here in Miami and have many contacts, so I think it’ll be good to go home and expand my contacts there.

      3. Neither. Artist management or agent. I’ve got experience in both and simultaneously following each path to see which door opens first. My degree is in music business and entertainment industries.

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