Mom’s surgery went good yesterday; double mastectomy. Doctor’s said they couldn’t see any more cancer cells either! Didn’t know she would have to stay overnight, but I guess I should have figured as much. I wanted to stay there with her, but being pregnant and my work life didn’t allow.

Work life.

How the fuck did that stuff get so complicated? I do what I’m supposed AND SOME, yet when I need to be home or be off, it’s like the world is ending and I can’t take some PTO. I always feel a little guilty updating my PTO and letting my boss know. I have days I am allowed to take off, so hell, let me take them! And I shouldn’t be worried about what’s happening at work when a lot more important things are happening to me in my personal life. I feel ashamed and stupid to even “care” so much. It’s not that I care, I just have always been that way. My work ethic. But I have not gotten the same type of courteousness in return, so I’m pretty much like eff it now.

House hunting is going ok. We have a few weeks before we need to be out of this apartment. Hopefully we see some more houses today that we like, make a pick, and boom done!

I should probably get going to work…This baby had me burning up after I got out the shower, so I needed a few moments to relax and chill. Hence the blog post this early in the AM.

Hasta luego



Just a Quickie

I have some things in mind that I need to take care of, but I just wanted to throw some things out there for you to mull over until I return…

  1. I’m going to have a baby!! We are super excited and have had quite a journey so far. I am 14 weeks preggers today and haven’t puked in 3 weeks 🙂
  2. I am so so proud of seeing my peers and friends accomplish things they have worked so hard for! It’s great motivation to achieve my own goals. Sometimes their paths are a bit easier to success, but it will just make my success that much more gratifying, right?
  3. I now write for My Trending Stories! I have only posted on their once, but still have to get a feel for the site. They told me I can write about whatever the hell I wanted as long as it wasn’t offensive to a particular group of people like being racist or something, but I don’t know if they truly know who they’re dealing with here lol

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