Express. Yourself.

Expressing yourself can be hard as fuck sometimes. Especially when you don’t have something necessarily good to say.

But in hindsight, it’s better to at least try. Though the convo may not play out as you thought/planned, hell at least you tried. At least you put forth the effort to let the other person know what was on your mind, on your heart.

And if they can’t appreciate the value in that, then there’s something wrong with them, not you.

Communication is so important on every level of life. Sometimes we get so caught up in the fact that someone is saying something ‘negative’ and we forget to even just appreciate the fact that they’re expressing themselves. Allowing themselves to express how they feel.

And don’t let the fact that previous conversations turned into arguments keep you from listening to them.

Listen to respond, not to react.

I believe people can change, for good or bad, but they can change. So every conversation isn’t going to be like the one before. You or they don’t always have to be the villain in the situation. Maybe they fuckin figured it out and actually just want to tell you something that’s concerning them. They felt safe enough to tell you, so respect that and embrace the connection rather than whatever ‘negativity‘ you feel coming from it. Don’t get upset, just connect and understand them.

Express yourself.
Embrace change.
Believe in love.

Change

At what point in your life do you decide you want something better for yourself?
Does something traumatic have to happen, or you just wake up one day and feel that it’s time for a change?

Whatever it may be, embrace it. A long-lasting truth of the human race is change is inevitable. As a whole, united entity of the human race, we accept it. As a sole, individual person living in this world, we neglect and disregard it.

Look, there are 2 certainties in life: Life and Death. What happens in between? Change!

Whether it be physical, emotional, spiritual, sexual; change is essentially a part of our genome yet we sometimes run away from its irresistible cry for acceptance. And those moments when we accept it, what of them?

We discover traits of ourselves and others that we like and don’t like. We enjoy or hate the delicate moments life gives us. We explore the seen and constantly hunt for the unseen. The “magic” in the world. The blessings, the prayers, the meditations, the hopes. Creating so much power and energy, to even think of containing it is a humorous¬†fallacy.

Change can be scary, but it’s inevitable. It’s the transition from life to death, the 2 certainties in life. So essentially, change is a certainty as well, no?

Lastly, matter cannot be created or destroyed; merely change forms of energy. It’s life, science, love, everything.

Maybe it’s not so bad to let things change…